Cyber Romp

published Mod January- February 2010

By ANA KRISTINE B. VALENZUELA

WITH a handful of Filipino men leaving for overseas work, the women they left in their home country resort to phone calls to ease the absence of their men.

Not wanting to have large phone bills, they opt for the much affordable instant messaging. Most of the time, these long distance lovers’ exchanges consist of longing for each other--and having suggestive verbal sex.

With the help of a keyboard, a web cam, and a mic, a man and a woman can experience near euphoria through virtual sex: zero physical contact, just simply giving one’s self pure erotic pleasure.

CYBER SEX TIPS

Be Game. At first it may be weird to be doing it with a computer, but if you surrender yourself, you’ll find yourself in a great situation. Just remember to keep your doors locked.

Give in to Your Fantasy. Start by telling him your fantasy, or where and how you would want to do it with him. If he doesn’t have a webcam, describe to him what you look like. The more seductive you claim yourself to be—even if you’re just wearing your favorite pajamas—the better.

Flash Forward. If you have a webcam, flash him. Or for a little foreplay, do a little sexy striptease for him.

Tease Him. If you have a mic, breathe heavily into it so he can imagine that you are very much into the fantasy.

Type-O. If you don't have a mic or a cam, worry not. Describe the things that you are doing to yourself by typing with one hand. The other hand is for you, silly. Type in things like the way your hand gushes through your body for sexual pleasure.