Just Press (fore) play

Just Press (Fore)Play

By ANA KRISTINE B. VALENZUELA

MOD December 2009, Love lowdown

HE leans closely, whispering gently into your left ear. His lips touch your nape as his fingers brush through your hair. He moves back, catching a glimpse of how you react. Consequently, your eyes lock with his. You to him, at that very moment, are incomparable in beauty and individuality.

The unspoken spark between you two can be sensed. The understood intention silently agreed upon. Both of you want each other, want to make love.

Meant to heighten sexual arousal, foreplay is about connection and intimacy. It increases the emotional comfort between you and your man. Foreplay tends to become ever more physical and intense as both of you move closer to sexual contact. For women, foreplay is a phase that arouses, to get ready and lubricated for sex.

Foreplay can begin with wearing sexy clothes and even with a wink. Without the intimacy and sexual connection, the interaction made is misleading. It’s simply called flirting or leading someone on.

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Fire for Foreplay

Start It Up. Making a simple contact such as asking him about your day, him smelling your hair, and holding hands are starters. It is all on how you carry the conversation and make that certain moment move to the next level.

Suggest. Tease him as you describe what you want to do in bed, like the way you want his hands touch your body and or his fingers run through your chest. Do remember that the brain is a major sex organ. The way he visualizes it can certainly intensify his sexual pleasure.

Touch. The use of the sense of touch can heighten sexual excitement. Massage and caress certain parts of his body. Stroke his erogenous zones, located in his ears, neck, armpits, chest, lower back, fingers, and his most sensitive part.

Kiss. Used to express affection, kisses should be long, slow, and gentle so as to elicit passion. Feel his response and do not be too aggressive.You can try taking after his kissing style.

Communicate. Don’t just walk out on him, especially after having a mind-boggling orgasm. Tell him how good the experience was. Make him feel wanted through kisses and cuddles. Talk about new stuff you want to try with him the next time you engage in the activity.

Ask. Ask for his wildest sexual escapade or even ask for his wildest sexual fantasy. Then do it. If he says Princess Leia in Star Wars in Jabba the Hut’s lair, tie your hair in buns and make yourself a costume just like the imprisoned princess.

Role-Play. Fool around as Edward and Bella in Twilight, or an undercover spy and a wanted criminal, a teacher and a naughty student, or even as a dominatrix boss and her male secretary. Be imaginative when role-playing.

image from the time traveller's wife